FIGURES released by the Economic Planning Unit state that in 2010 alone, 33,788 out of 207,553 marriages had ended in divorce.

If this is anything to go by, our society would definitely be burdened with more social ills and turmoil in the near future.

Society is formed by units of families and it is vital that all families stay committed and united, as any break-up or divorce taking place will not only hurt the said family, it will also generate a negative impact on society in the long term.

Divorce is most unfortunate and painful not only for the couple concerned but also their children and the rest of the family. Most of the time the children are the biggest victims and they suffer in silence, which is unfair.

In today's materialistic, money-minded, hectic and high-pressure life, more and more married couples are having marital and family problems.

Some reach a point of no return. Those with children will have to go through legal proceedings which could take time and create tremendous mental stress and trauma to everyone.

Regardless of the court's decision, the children are the biggest losers. This is tragic!

Unlike decades ago, people nowadays take things too lightly and often rush into something without taking many factors into consideration, as they regard marriage and divorce just like a game or business transaction.

I advise those who are single to think carefully before making a lifelong commitment in marriage and having children if they are not ready.

Marriage is a partnership in which two individuals of the opposite sex promise to love and live life together forever. It a most sacred union. A happy and lasting marriage requires a lot of hard work, sacrifice, understanding, tolerance and commitment with both partners supporting each other in good times and bad.

Happy and harmonious families lead to a stable and progressive society.

15 Comments

  1. selamat pagi isnin
    semoga sentiasa ceria

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  2. Kahwin bukan penamat cerita, tapi permulaan sebuah kisah.

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  3. betul tu cikgu, banyak perlu di pertimbangkan nak berkahwin perlu fikirkan pasal kewangan, nak buat majlis pun biarla sederhana sebab kehidupan sebenar bermula selepas kahwin nanti .

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  4. betul, jangan kahwin main ikut kawan or ikut trend je...

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  5. Jadikn lah perkahwinan itu ladang pahala utk kite kumpul.berkejar2 lakukan kebaikan kepada pasangan bukn berkejar2 cr kesalahan pasangnn..huhuhuh

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  6. sebaiknya pilih ikut kemampuan diri ye dak abe kie

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  7. Ukur baju di badan sendiri. Buat majlis setakat yang mampu, jangan kerana nak majlis grand, masa depan susah

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  8. Sederhana itu indah dan manis sebenarnya.Dalam segenap sudup kehidupan termasuklah memutuskan untuk berkahwin dan setelah mendirikan rumahtangga.

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  9. terima kasih atas nasihat cikgu =)

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  10. This entry some sort of make me afraid of gettin married but i still want to...hahaha

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  11. Setuju. kahwin perlukan tanggungjawab dan komitment yang sgt tinggi. Nice info Mr Abam Kie. :)

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  12. Jgn salahkan sebuah perkahwinan di atas kesilapan diri sndri..Sebuah Perkahwinan yang indah ni kena saling mlgkapi..btggjwb dan memahami antara satu sama lain. Seronok perkahwinan berdasarkan cara kita melayari perkahwinan itu sndri..kan cikgu :)

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  13. Untung nikah masa PKPP ni... save sikit x kisah lah apa org kata... janji akad tu penting... nasib sy dh kawen lama dh.. hehehe

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  14. Betul sangat tu.. Kena fikir selepas majlis bukan masa majlis sahaja..
    Paling penting kena ada kesefahaman dan tolak ansur antara bakal pengantin dan juga keluarga.. Benda boleh bincang..

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  15. i dont think i will ever get married :(

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